Do you know why some people are more wealthy and rich than others,achieve more,acquire more and lead happy and successful lifes ?
Now i have a very profound and accurate answer. But in the past, when I tried to answer this question, I found myself trapped into a paradox.
It’s not easy to answer — not if we look deeply and analytically.
But I succeeded. I found a solution.
Everything begins with a magic word. That word is - reason.
There are negative reasons and positive reasons.
There are internal reasons and external reasons.
The problem here is that people are poor,because they have no reasons,incentives or some kind of reward guarantee to behave in particular way. Or they live only for pleasure and when they cannot get pleasure, they become insane.So it's not only about reasons,its about the right reasons.If you establish your "why", the "how" will automatically and easily clarify. That's how our unconscious works.
Ask yourself - What is this intangible reason pulling you like a magnet and motivating you to PUSH against the repression and depression,against all the negativity?
Choose an identity,move linearly toward what you want and believe that it doesn't matter what parents you have,how lonely you are.
Remember,your trauma doesn't EXCUSE YOU,just it doesn't even matter how you feel,how low you are in the socio-economic ladder,you can have a lot of friends and money and love and sex and so forth,it doesn't matter.If you use the laws and rules and steps properly, events will start taking place,you will see a change in your life and you will know that the thing works. If you jump off from a 20-story building and you are good as a saint or bad as a crook,whatever you are -wrong or right,young or old-the same thing will happen to you - you will get splat on the sidewalk. So it doesnt matter. The laws operate against you or for you if you know how,where, when to apply them.
But to truly answer this question — why some succeed while others suffer — we must ask another question:
Why do people go insane? What does “insanity” mean?
My answer: No reasons.
A lack of reasons.
No reason to find purpose.
No reason to live.
No reason to enjoy life.Or doing the same things and expecting a different results.
And why do people suffer? Again — reasons.
Sometimes we suffer, and sometimes we lose our minds, because of negative reasons — often external, often unrecognized.
Now, what is love?
You might ask:
“Why do I need to know what love is? I just want to get rich!”
But let me ask you something:
Do you really believe you can get rich — truly rich — without any understanding of love?
Love has something to do with order and success, doesn’t it?
There is order… and there is disorder.
And aren’t we constantly oscillating between the two?
There is conditional love.
There is also unconditional love. In human affairs it seems like someone loves you only when he or she needs something from you.
When you go to the gym, people are not suffering for you.
They suffer for themselves — for their own growth.
When you go to a restaurant, people eat.
They eat to fulfill their needs — not yours.
And when you eat, when you suffer, when you grow — you do it for your own reasons.
And that’s the key:
You are where you are right now — not by accident —
but because of your reasons and choices you made.
ConfidenceBuilder was created by me — to help you, support you, and assist you in bringing what you truly want into your life.
But here’s the problem: most people don’t really know what they want.
Or worse — they contradict themselves.
They say they want positive things… but keep thinking, speaking, and focusing on the negative.
Listen. Remember. Understand what I’m telling you.
👉 You can change.
👉 You can take control of your life — that fast.
👉 You can have anything, be anything, and do everything you wish to do.You can BECOME! You can,trust me.
My Story
When I was in high school, I wasn’t one of the lucky ones. I grew up in a household where my parents didn’t care for me. I was mistreated and left alone. At school, things weren’t any better. My problems weren’t just ignored; somehow, I was often seen as the one to blame.
I didn’t have the adequacy and intelligence to realize what was happening to me. I behaved in ways that today I recognize were shaped by deep confusion, maybe even trauma — what might be called an autistic or dissociative response to the stress I was under.
By the time I turned 18, my peers were getting their driver’s licenses, going to parties, wearing good clothes, making connections.I was stuck — barely holding on in what felt like an endless loop of hopelessness and survival.And this was it. I was under control.Or out of control.This was not freedom.All the bad things I went through had to happen.To receive, I have to give. But I was empty — I had nothing to give.
Back then, I didn’t realize how manipulated, neglected, and unsupported I really was. I had internalized all of it. I thought I was the problem. I carried an identity of inferiority, and over time, that sense of failure hardened into aggression, emotional shutdowns, and silent (actually noisy,but only inside of my head) crises.
But I’ve made a decision: not to let that story define me. That version of me is not the whole of me. And if you're going through something similar — if you’ve been overlooked, broken down, and made to feel like you don’t matter — you’re not alone.
This is why I built this platform. To give voice to people like me. To share what I’ve learned. To rebuild from the inside out.
It took me so much just to realize that life isn't about money.Money are important,YES! But, it's more about TIME, about Love.It was hard to convince my scared and traumatized brain that what counts the most are the people in your life. But it's better to be alone,than around fake people ! :)
There are things we can change — and those we can’t. Factors over which we have control and factors over which we have not.And we have a choice,but sometimes we have not and we have to accept we cannot have EVERYTHING we want...except when we make the exact steps required.Give yourself a chance to change!
We can work on our habits, choices, and mindset. But we can’t change certain facts of life, like the color of our skin or the past.
Some problems are fixable. Others are out of reach.
Yet many people excuse their negative attitude by rationalizing(excusing)it away.
They don’t feel your pain — because their pain is their own, and yours is yours.
You can choose to rely on others and trust them and hold your expectations on them… or go the other way and take full control yourself.
Be careful who you’re around. Negative people can make you feel irresponsible no matter how responsible you really are. Sometimes it doesn’t even matter if you’re right or wrong, smart or strong — you’ll still be treated as an exception.
And that’s what we call discrimination.
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There are universal laws. They’re called ‘universal’ because they work for everyone, without exception. If a drunk stumbles off a twenty-story building, he’ll hit the pavement and die. If the King of Norway does the same, he’ll meet the same fate. The law doesn’t care who you are — good, bad, rich, poor — it works the same, every time.
Electricity works the same for everyone. If you screw in a light bulb, your home lights up. If you stick your finger in the socket, you’ll get shocked. Doesn’t matter if you’re a top engineer or a two-year-old kid — the result is the same. And in the end, all you need to do is press the switch to make it work.
The laws of love are densely "packed" with deeper laws — the law of control, the law of change, and the law of choice. These laws don’t exist outside of us; they depend entirely on our minds, our actions, and our decisions. They are powerful, but their power is only real when we actively use and master them.
Universal laws — like electricity and gravity — are different. They don’t rely on us or our beliefs. They don’t care who we are or what we want. They work every single time, without fail.
Understanding this difference is crucial. While universal laws shape the world around us, the laws of love govern our inner world — and mastering them is the key to true control and change.
Love exists both inside and outside of us. Inside, it’s about our control, choices, and the changes we make in ourselves. Outside, it’s the force that connects us, the energy flowing between people, shaping our world.
Universal laws — like electricity and gravity — work no matter what. They don’t care about your feelings, your beliefs, or your situation. They just are. They operate without fail, every single time.
Personal laws — like control, change, and choice — depend on us. They only work when we understand them, decide to use them, and put in the effort. These laws shape our inner world and our ability to influence the outer world.
Most people get confused. They expect personal laws to work automatically, like gravity, but they don’t. That’s why so many fail to take control of their lives and end up frustrated, stuck, or lost.
“I’ve been where many find themselves — stuck in patterns, reacting to life like Pavlov’s dog to a bell, conditioned by past experiences and habits. These signals we get — pain, frustration, failure — aren’t punishments. They’re cues telling us something needs to change.
But just like Skinner’s model of behavior shows, it’s not enough to simply receive a signal. Change only happens when we understand the antecedents, make a conscious choice, and accept the consequences.
Most people don’t get this. They expect life to shift on its own, without effort or awareness. But unless you break free from old conditioning and start making different choices, you’ll keep getting the same results — over and over. INSANITY!!!
Here’s the truth: nothing changes until you decide it does. Life doesn’t owe you an easy path or a helping hand. You’re either stuck in the same loop of frustration and pain(vicious circle)— or you’re willing to do the work to break free(the work i'm talking about doesn't exactly mean "physical" work).
No magic. No shortcuts. Just the hard, honest work of mastering yourself and your choices.
If that’s not for you, that’s okay. But don’t complain about where you’re stuck. If it is — then this is where you start.Or, to say it plain — if you’re happy right where you’re at, think you don’t need to change, and feel like you’ve got it all figured out, then this isn’t for you. And that’s fine.
This site hits you right where it counts — straight to your nerves(all your synapses and dendrites!!!) . It’s meant to wake you up and shake things loose.
So please, listen up and remember this stuff. It might just change everything for you.You don’t need a psychologist or some fancy expert. Just come to me. I’ll help you cut through the noise and get real results.
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